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I can’t get any girl I want, but I can just get some not my type of girls, so I feel I’m so ugly. What should I do?

09.06.2025 00:38

I can’t get any girl I want, but I can just get some not my type of girls, so I feel I’m so ugly. What should I do?

I don't think that anyone can always get their type of girl, 100% of the time. It's unrealistic. Even actors and models can't get anyone they want at any time, although they may have better luck than your typical guy.

Consider who you are attracted to. Are they only the extremely gorgeous, flawless girls? Are they the ones with the perfect figures, impeccably applied makeup, and glossy hair? Are the girls you want the ones that every single other guy wants??

Nobody is saying that you have to lower your standards and date someone you are not attracted to. That's not fair to you or to the girl, if you only date her because you're lonely and need sex from someone, anyone. But again, if you want the best, you have to be the best. The prettiest girls always have lots of options, so this is going to require hard work on your end, but it could be worth it.

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

What do you have to offer them, besides the obvious? They can literally get any guy they want, so why would they choose you over, say, the star quarterback of the football team or the president of the student council? If you want the best, you have to be the best yourself. Saying to yourself, But I deserve a hot, sexy chick! will only get you so far.

At the end of the day, even if the girls you want are out of reach for a while, hitting the gym, staying well-groomed and getting a good education to get a well-paid job is never a waste of time and effort.

The fact that some girls are attracted to you, even if they're not particularly your type, suggests that you are not ugly, even if you don't find them attractive yourself.

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If so, you're in for a rude awakening.